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| Poe Mountain |
"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.
A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.
A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master..."
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"There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts."
— Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia)
I think it seems "easier" to believe that we have no choices
that we are dealt the hand we are given
and that we are helpless under our own circumstances
that is all up to fate and out of our influence. . .
And yet for me that approach to life feels very heavy . . .
For me knowing that I can choose
to strive towards a goal,
to change who I am
to discover what I am
to create who I am to become
to influence where I can
and to be influenced by others and
learn from my mistakes
lightens the struggles of the path that is life . . .
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Soul Mates . . .
you meet them they come into your life
100 miles an hour
they feel as if they have always been there
that you would be lost without them
We cannot choose who they will be
When they will arrive
What they will show us
What will show them
We cannot choose when they will leave us
We can choose
to relish the moments
we are granted
the joyous and the painful
to examine the images they present to us
We can choose to allow them to be
with us as long as they are
and we can choose to allow them to go
when they need to go
Love,
Live,
Laugh!
And try like HELL not to see the same mistakes in the mirror again!!